Free private exercise

Personal responsibility worksheet: find the next move that is yours.

Use one real situation—not your whole life. This worksheet does not decide who is to blame. It helps you separate the facts from the story and choose one action you can take within 24 hours.

1. Name the situation

Facts can be uncomfortable without being a verdict about your character.

2. Name the story

The story may contain truth. Treat it as a question until you have evidence.

3. Draw the control line

A responsible response can be a request, boundary, repair, pause, support person, or professional help.

4. Choose one visible move

Private by design: nothing you write here is sent to Blame Yourself. Your answers remain in this page until you close or refresh it.

Your next-move card

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Use this worksheet once, then give the next move a real chance. The free opening chapter includes the Mirror Moment worksheet and a short 24-hour practice.

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